Yes they aren't identical situations, but you'll notice in your diagram that there is a downward force acting on the fish called "gravity", which is the point I was making - that gravity is acting on fish and humans regardless of what upward forces are also present.
Try to appreciate the sense in which his statement might be true before nitpicking. It's true that free-fall feels substantially different from floating underwater, or even lying on a soft surface (the last two are more similar subjectively than free fall - the force resisting gravity is spread over your body).