Fair enough, although I think the term "slob" is a bit extreme here. I would say that I'm just not very into what I would call "organization for the sake of organization". For example:
1. As the author already mentions, why put a cup into the dishwasher if you plan on using it again?
2. Why fold and put away my pants if I wear the same pants everyday for a week?
3. Why hang my jacket if I know I'm leaving again in an hour
4. Why make the bed at all ever? (making the bed is its own topic of insanity IMO)
Etc etc etc
I think I just value and emphasize what I consider efficiency (perhaps laziness?).
(In all seriousness, maybe have a chat with people you trust about general smell/hygeine. Dental shit especially is something so many grown adults get completely wrong. Not everyone notices it, but there's a damn good reason I go out of my way to sit next to black people on the train! :P).
> I think I just value and emphasize what I consider efficiency (perhaps laziness?).
Serisously, though, I think that's what great about having a partner. In the eyes of some random dickhead on the internet, at least, you make a fair point on (1) and (3), but (2) and (4) are maybe things your partner's value system handles better.
You should check out https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C6gu_ABMvzA. You don't need to wash your pants that often. Specially if stay somewhere there is not dust and areas are not dirty.
1. As the author already mentions, why put a cup into the dishwasher if you plan on using it again?
2. Why fold and put away my pants if I wear the same pants everyday for a week?
3. Why hang my jacket if I know I'm leaving again in an hour
4. Why make the bed at all ever? (making the bed is its own topic of insanity IMO)
Etc etc etc
I think I just value and emphasize what I consider efficiency (perhaps laziness?).