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Having worked with a lot of Russians/former Sovjets, I can see this happening.

They're often serious in most endeavours ("work hard play hard", "smiling is for leisure time" etc), and this extends to disagreements IME.

There was one incident where two (white collar adults) had a fist fight over a seemingly minor issue. I was mortified (Swede), but they were fine? As in the fight settled it, and they were now pals again.

Alcohol was included.



I admire their style. Explicit in feeling, resolve conflict right away, hold no grudges. Reminds me of the genuine interaction among children or chimpanzee politics [1], where upon resolving conflicts, everyone are friends again (chimpanzees are more nuanced but still).

Of course, alcohol too.

[1] https://www.goodreads.com/book/show/389530.Chimpanzee_Politi...


I do not understand the purpose of the fist fight.

Was the “minor conflict” resolved by one of the people acquiescing due to not wanting to risk further damage?


I interpreted it as 'you went there and won, so you must really believe in your proposition'.

I also suspect that there were more than one reason for the fight, but you'd never know by asking.


  > Alcohol was included.
needless to say :D *scnr




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