> Are women really okay with passing the same men around?

Absolutely. There are women out there who will literally recommend men to their friends. I've seen them talk about this. Desirable men can literally end up being shared among a network of women. The more sex they have, the more sex they get to have.

There's a related phenomenon in women pursuing men who are already in marriages or relationships because they've essentially been pre-vetted and thus deemed desirable.

I guess that only works if the women don't mind being cheated on. If they get a man to cheat with them, they know exactly the kind of man they're getting.

The way I’ve heard it from an actual woman is “I’d rather have 25% of a winner, than 100% of a loser.”

I guess I wouldn't be surprised if it were happening somewhere, but I still have a hard time believing that's the norm. Maybe I'm just the possessive and jealous type...