react native do uses native UI per platform in contrast to flutter or compose multiplatform. React Native improved a lot - it's not the same technology that has been 5 years ago. Especially this year there were plenty of improvements also regarding speed but in react native and community plugins (new architecture rolled in, react compiler, hermes v1, nitro modules, flash list v2, legend list, react native skia, react native webgpu, expo use dom) Tooling in JS/TS ecosystem also improved a lot.
Yes it uses native UI by wrapping the underlying frameworks, but that still means there is a layer in between that has to be updated with fixes and new features. Every RN project I've tried in the past turned into a dependency mess since you find edge cases that are not supported by the framework.
It's definitely gotten better like you said but I just prefer to work with the native platform code even if it's a bit of extra effort.
