Edit: Oh my goodness didn’t realize this was the same Dad from: https://jenn.site/my-dad-could-still-be-alive-but-hes-not/
The author has suffered enough and you call xir that on top ... be more considerate of xir situation.
This is writing about a real person. I certainly hope you don't see yourself as so one dimensional, why should others be?
Maybe you should read it.
Edit: Oh my goodness didn’t realize this was the same Dad from: https://jenn.site/my-dad-could-still-be-alive-but-hes-not/