>The "closed duplicate" thing is blown away out of proportion than it actually is.

I hardly use the site and it's happened to me multiple times. I'm sure people that rely more heavily on it see it all the time. I suppose it depends on the sorts of topics you're looking for help with, much like wikipedia or subreddits, a lot of the little niches are seemingly ran by assholes that would rather delete stuff than actually help people find information.