One interesting discovery is that people are really dour about it at places that hire a lot of enby's [1] but overall enby people who are by themselves or working at places where 10% or fewer people are enby really dig somebody who represents "oceanic reservoir of calm" [2] with a kidult presentation of self.
So these 10% enby presumably tend to be "silent enbys"?
Hmm. Gotta investigate whether HN (the HQ) has (or aims for) the magic ~10% enby. (I had suspected as such but you again voiced what was in my subconscious!!)