you work only 8-9 hours a day and have just a 45 minute commute and you're whining about it? For someone in their twenties that makes no sense to me. I'm twice as old as you, work longer hours than you, have a longer commute and manage to raise a daughter and contribute to my github projects when she's asleep. I'm no better than anyone, my point is that you sound so whiny and entitled. If you don't like your job then change it, but you definitely don't sound like someone who would do very well going out alone.